Spanking Dating in Canada

What is Spanking in Canada?

In Canadian kink culture, spanking is a classic form of consensual impact play — striking the buttocks (and sometimes upper thighs) with a hand or implements. It can be light and teasing, sensual and erotic, or firm and ritualistic, depending on what both people want. Some enjoy the sting; others love the “warmth” build, the rhythm, the anticipation, and the intimacy of going OTK (over the knee) or being told to bend over for a negotiated scene.

Spanking often appears in dynamics like playful dominance, brat-taming, domestic discipline roleplay, and D/s relationships — where it can function as a fantasy “consequence,” a bonding ritual, or simply a favourite way to play with power, control, and surrender.

The core is communication: how hard, how long, what positions or implements, what marking is okay, what areas are off-limits, and what safewords (or stop signals) will be used. Aftercare can matter too — soothing touch, reassurance, water, and checking in once the scene ends.

Above all, kink must always follow strict consent principles: adults only, mutual agreement, safety discussions and safewords. Kink activity must always be strictly safe, sane, and consensual; and utilise a safe-word.