Kinksy: Spanking Dating App | Find Your Spanking Partner with Kinksy

Spanking Dating | Find Your Spanking Partner with Kinksy

Built for spanking enthusiasts

Find partners who crave impact play, OTK scenes, and reddened cheeks, from playful swats to more serious discipline. Regardless of whether you're here for "spanking dating" or to find a new play partner, Kinksy is here to help you find your match.

Whether you’re curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, Kinksy makes it easier to find partners who share your spanking interest.

Add spanking to your kinks and only be matched with others looking for a spanking partner too.
Filter by location, age, and gender; so you'll only see relevant profiles.
Everyone on Kinksy has at least 1 photo (not necessarily of their face), and a brief description.
Choose how you connect: Require an introduction message; or prevent messages unless you like back. You decide.
We care about you and your privacy. We encrypt your email address, don't spam, and offer secure messaging.

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What is Spanking?

Spanking is a classic kink that involves consensually striking the buttocks (and sometimes thighs) by hand or with implements like paddles and brushes. It can be playful, disciplinary, sensual, or punishing, depending on intensity and context. Many people enjoy the audible smack, the gradual build-up of warmth, and the emotional charge of being put over someone’s lap or bending over on command.

Spanking often features in domestic discipline, bratting, and D/s dynamics, where it may serve as a consequence for rule-breaking or a ritual that reinforces roles. Others simply enjoy it as a focused form of impact play, combining sting, thud, and the comforting rhythm of repeated swats.

Negotiation covers how hard, how long, and what implements are used. Some people adore redness; others prefer lighter play. Safety includes avoiding the lower back, kidneys, and tailbone. Aftercare might involve soothing touch, lotion, and admiration of the results. When done thoughtfully, spanking is a versatile, accessible entry into impact play and power exchange.

Kink activity must always be strictly safe, sane, and consensual; and utilise a safe-word.

What are spanking personals?

Online, “personals” usually means a place to post a brief ad, browse compatible people, and start a conversation. Kinksy implements the same idea—without the sketchy vibe—by matching you through your shared spanking kink, location, and dating preferences, so you spend less time filtering and more time meeting the right people.

What Makes Kinksy Special

Kinksy offers a modern spanking dating experience, far better than old personals or BDSM classifieds. We help you build genuine contacts who share your spanking kink.

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Maintain your privacy: You set your location & decide what to share. You can filter who can find or message you.

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Built for spanking enthusiasts

What is Spanking?

What are spanking personals?

What Makes Kinksy Special

Your Specific Kink

Where You Want

Privacy

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